mechana2015 (post: 1442583) wrote:In most cases, the churchgoer that believes that every person who isn't consistently attending a church has fallen into sin isn't going to listen to what he has to say at all anyways, since that is usually one of a litany of other rules centered around making everyone look, talk, think, and act the same. If you don't follow ALL of them you'll have no chance of influencing anyone, since you're 'out of the will of God', and if you do, there will be no room to try to push change since the way the places are structured are usually against any change of procedure unless it's put in place directly by the pastor.
mechana2015 wrote:For reference, I personally hopped churches for years with periods of refusal to attend when I didn't have transportation, time or energy to go looking for a new one. I'm currently at a mainline church, and would prefer to stay that way if I can help it, but I had the advantage of living in an area with a church on nearly every corner in a metropolis. People in more rural areas will not have the choice that I had, and I can see eventually pulling away entirely as a valid choice if there isn't a church that they can exist in within an acceptable distance.
goldenspines wrote:Its only stealing if you don't get caught.
TopazRaven (post: 1442686) wrote:I also have the problem that I don't think I know how to properly worship or talk about God and maybe church can help that.
Azier the Swordsman (post: 1442722) wrote:The only reason I attend my church is I have a lot of friends at my home church and I want to hold onto the relationships I have with these people as long as I live here.
Otherwise I would probably not attend church at all. I just don't fit in well with other Christians. I'm very anti fundamentalist. I feel that there is too high a degree of legalism within the church and not enough love. I feel that the pulpit too often gets turned into a soapbox for the individual opinions of the pastors.
After not understanding why a lot of people in the church would act like I was super intelligent during bible studies, I eventually came to figure out that I'm apparently in a small minority of Christians who have actually read the Bible cover to cover, read between the lines, and thought carefully about everything. This is disturbing to me.
A lot of Christians tend to base their entire belief systems off what they have been taught in church, or worse, in the Christian media, and don't bother checking out their beliefs for themselves.
I am not a Christian because I was raised a Christian. I am not a Christian because somebody told me, "Believe this!" and I said, "Yes, sir!" I didn't.
I went through a long period of agnosticism in my life with a lot of deep soul searching into a bunch of different religions and belief systems before I came to my conclusions as a Christian. Most Christians can't make this claim, and believe whatever they are taught by whoever they are taught by, and don't bother to question it. This really bugs me.
If the church were to stop using itself to promote the belief systems of the individuals and instead spent more time trying to understand and love others, then I would be more inclined to take a more active part in it.
'Cause, you know, nothing says The Love Of Christ like an organization that has effectively turned it into one less source that a number of teens committing suicide could have turned to for help, simply because of their sexual orientation, or decides that proclaiming the "evils" of Harry Potter is more important than preaching about, well, the love of Christ.
Azier the Swordsman (post: 1442722) wrote:After not understanding why a lot of people in the church would act like I was super intelligent during bible studies, I eventually came to figure out that I'm apparently in a small minority of Christians who have actually read the Bible cover to cover, read between the lines, and thought carefully about everything. This is disturbing to me.
A lot of Christians tend to base their entire belief systems off what they have been taught in church, or worse, in the Christian media, and don't bother checking out their beliefs for themselves.
I am not a Christian because I was raised a Christian. I am not a Christian because somebody told me, "Believe this!" and I said, "Yes, sir!" I didn't.
CrimsonRyu17 (post: 1442744) wrote:I'm just gunna drop in here and remind you that most Christians in America are indoctrinated at a young age. A lot of people are raised as a Christian. They don't choose what they believe in. They are told "this is the way things are" and not to question the Bible because then they would be "falling away". Do you see what I'm getting at? The reason they don't question their beliefs is because they're taught not to. I don't think any logical and/or mature human being would respond with a "Yes, sir!" if told to "Believe this!" without any good reason. Children, on the other hand, when told by their parents will believe.
And it is oh so very difficult to escape from such mindsets.
goldenspines wrote:Its only stealing if you don't get caught.
CrimsonRyu17 (post: 1442744) wrote:I'm just gunna drop in here and remind you that most Christians in America are indoctrinated at a young age. A lot of people are raised as a Christian. They don't choose what they believe in. They are told "this is the way things are" and not to question the Bible because then they would be "falling away". Do you see what I'm getting at? The reason they don't question their beliefs is because they're taught not to. I don't think any logical and/or mature human being would respond with a "Yes, sir!" if told to "Believe this!" without any good reason. Children, on the other hand, when told by their parents will believe.
And it is oh so very difficult to escape from such mindsets.
Peanut (post: 1442759) wrote:This. It should also probably be mentioned that in general, our education system is sort of a form of brain washing in which we instill certain values within kids that they accept blindly. For instance, the idea that 2+2 always equals 4.
Peanut (post: 1442759) wrote: So, really the only thing the Church can be blamed for is not having a point where it gives people the tools to investigate the beliefs they've been taught. But even here, the Church kind of does. It's just most people don't want to take a class in Hermeneutics or go to a Christian University that does a good job teaching about the Bible and Theology.
blkmage (post: 1442778) wrote:Every church that I've stuck around with has stressed the importance of thinking critically about our beliefs as an important way of spiritual growth and they've given me the tools to do that. Maybe it's because I've been extremely lucky in finding churches, but I'm a bit surprised to hear that things are in such a dire state in the US.
CrimsonRyu17 (post: 1442775) wrote:
Oh the Church can be blamed for so much more than just that but that's another discussion. You seemed to have also missed my point in my last post that the Church teaches against questioning your beliefs. If any system resembles brain washing, it would be the Church.
Crimmy wrote:You're also assuming that Christans don't go to a Christian Univeristy just because they don't want to. Most people can't afford to.
blkmage wrote:Why should people have to take a class at a university to be able to read the Bible correctly? I mean, yeah if you want to go super in-depth at a professional level, then that's fine, but I think churches should be responsible for teaching the basics of hermeneutics and exegesis and other basic interpretative skills. Like, I don't understand how people think they can read it without understanding even basic things like context. If the church isn't teaching you how to read your Bible, that's a failure on the church's part, not because of any lack of interest on the part of the believer.
blkmage wrote:I don't understand how people think they can read it without understanding even basic things like context.
I'm a bit surprised to hear that things are in such a dire state in the US.
CrimsonRyu17 (post: 1442775) wrote:Children are taught Basic Math skills not Algebra or complex equations. They're not being brainwashed into believing that 2 + 2 equals 4, they are being taught and shown, usually with a picture of a barrel of apples, that 2 + 2 equals 4 in Basic Math.
Oh the Church can be blamed for so much more than just that but that's another discussion. You seemed to have also missed my point in my last post that the Church teaches against questioning your beliefs. If any system resembles brain washing, it would be the Church.
CrimsonRyu17 wrote:You're also assuming that Christans don't go to a Christian Univeristy just because they don't want to. Most people can't afford to.
blkmage wrote:Why should people have to take a class at a university to be able to read the Bible correctly? I mean, yeah if you want to go super in-depth at a professional level, then that's fine, but I think churches should be responsible for teaching the basics of hermeneutics and exegesis and other basic interpretative skills. Like, I don't understand how people think they can read it without understanding even basic things like context. If the church isn't teaching you how to read your Bible, that's a failure on the church's part, not because of any lack of interest on the part of the believer.
Radical Dreamer wrote:Just dropping in to suggest that we don't bash the church--the people within it who have hurt us in the past are still our brothers and sisters in Christ. I don't think there's anything wrong with pinpointing some of the problems that have come up in it in the past, but we need to make sure we aren't confusing an honest critique (and a genuine hope to change the problems that the modern church has) with flat-out bashing. The Body of Christ shouldn't hate itself.
goldenspines wrote:Its only stealing if you don't get caught.
Midori (post: 1442826) wrote:It's hard for me and many other Christians to imagine what a bad church would be like, which I think contributes to the belief that "If you don't go to a church, you aren't a Christian". Since, if every church were as good as my church, then I couldn't really imagine anyone deciding to not go to any church unless they had extreme circumstances or a spiritual problem. I expect that much of the "You must go to church" crowd are not members of totalitarian churches as much as members of good, honest churches, who believe that all churches are good and honest.
goldenspines wrote:Its only stealing if you don't get caught.
Rusty Claymore (post: 1442837) wrote:... can't find a good honest church? Then make it yourself. In all seriousness. Start a church. The first "churches" were what we would now call, "in home studies" anyway. Run around, grab some people, start studying the word and worshipping God. Paul outlines church blueprints in both Timothy and Titus, both structurally and conductiually, so all you need is there. Unless of course you don't believe in Biblical inerrancy. Then I can't say anything to help you, since I draw all my "theology" from the Bible anyway. Ganbatte.
goldenspines wrote:Its only stealing if you don't get caught.
▬_▬ Yeah, I couldn't find the right word for what I meant, so I took a jab. Mostly just trying to cover bases with that one, so disregaurd. n.nThough I would say that Biblical inerrancy has nothing to do with what you are referencing.
keg504 (post: 1444998) wrote:Out of necessity, what is the date format? is it DD/MM/YYYY or MM/DD/YYYY. I'm used to DD/MM/YYYY. It could potentially make me gravedig old threats.
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