Girls minds are confusing!!

[shamanking343]

this is embarrassing but how do you know when a girl likes you?? mean to you or nice, laugh dont know help me out!

[ShiroiHikari]

^_^; I wish I had a good answer for you.

[supa dupa ninja]

here is one thing to remember, when a girl likes you they usually give you the "look". when you try to look at them they usually don't want to have eye contact (if the girl we're talking about is the shy type).

well that's it for now, I'll give some advice laterish...

[shooraijin]

Ursula: "And never underestimate the importance of ... body language!!"

(sorry, couldn't resist )

[Azier the Swordsman]

Girls minds are confusing!!

It took you 14 years to figure this out?

[Mithrandir]

I never did figure that one out. I got lucky with my former girlfriend. I just asked her one day, "So, do you think we could be more that just friends here, or what?" (OPV). She said, "Maybe." That was pretty much how it went.

PS: OK. So she's still my girl-friend, but I've since upgraded her to wife 1.0.

[Shinja]

body language eh, i had enough trouble with english language, thats never going to work. so shy girls dont like to look you in the eye eh, so how can you tell if they really just dont like you? that would really make sence though, i do look everybody in the eye, and i have been told it creeps them out.

[shamanking343]

no it took me 14 years to get enough courage to ask!! well I think think is good advice

[Taslin_Jewel]

no it took me 14 years to get enough courage to ask!! well I think think is good advice

Some things are better asked straight from the source. Why not ask us whether we like you or not? It would be the easiest way to get a straight answer.
Now that I've put in my two cents, I have to say that this thread makes me a little uncorfortable.

[inkhana]

this is embarrassing but how do you know when a girl likes you?? mean to you or nice, laugh dont know help me out!

[color=darkgreen]Well...it would be rather hard to define a constant for each girl...^^]

[Solid Ronin]

It took you 14 years to figure this out?

I agree with Chris

as for my answer........................I have no time for such things

[The Grammarian]

It took you 14 years to figure this out?

It took me 17 years to figure that out. But then, I had no interest in exploring the question before then.

[The Grammarian]

I have to say that this thread makes me a little uncorfortable.

If it's not too much to ask, I'm curious: Why is it making you uncomfortable?

[Taslin_Jewel]

If it's not too much to ask, I'm curious: Why is it making you uncomfortable?

Mainly because I'm female. No other reason.

[CobaltAngel]

here is one thing to remember, when a girl likes you they usually give you the "look".

Uhm, actaully, the look is something girls give guys when they're being total morons. ^^;;;

[Michael]

Girls minds are confusing, aunt's are even worse.

[cbwing0]

Hey...don't knock "the look."

One of the best ways to tell whether or not someone likes you is when other people say, "I think so-and-so likes you," especially when you were thinking the same thing. Unbiased opinions always help.

You also have to take into account the personality of the girl. If she is just naturally more "flirty" than most, you could be mistaken about any body langauge, looks, etc. that she gives you. As a general rule, if she acts differently around you than around other people, that is a good sign.

i do look everybody in the eye, and i have been told it creeps them out.

If they can't meet your gaze, that is their problem, not yours.

[uc pseudonym]

...I can't quite believe I'm reading this. Really.

No one here is going to be able to help you. Listen to what Inkhana said, though.

[shamanking343]

k then thanks..can someone close this topic??

[Spencer]

You could ask her friend. Or her friend's friend, or her friend's-friend's-friend. As long as someone who knows the girl in question really well tells you, I think you should get a good answer.

[CobaltAngel]

*pssst* Girl's can be nasty liars. ^_~

[Solid Ronin]

and dont forget about girl begin tricksy and false

[Spencer]

*pssst* Girl's can be nasty liars. ^_~

Precisely!

Girl who likes you: Hey, I like ::whisper whisper:: Don't tell, though.
Girl who likes you's friend: Right. Course not. We're homies.

5 minutes later.

Friend of girl who likes you: I wasn't supposed to tell anyone, but ::whisper:: likes ::whisper::
Your best friend's girlfriend: No way! I won't tell.

Your best friend's girlfriend: Hey, ::whisper:: likes ::whisper:: But don't tell him.
Best friend: Right.

Best friend: Dude, ::whisper:: likes you.
You:

[Destroyer2000]

Heh heh....with women, there's really no way to tell.

[DoMiNiQuE]

yep... we have our secret techniques... yup... :\ ..... mmmhmmm...... yeah..... thats right.. ....(secret)....

[kirakira]

*lol*

As for the origional question....well, I think the best way is to just ask her. But then, of course, you might suffer rejection, mocking, etc. but then again mebbe not. You never know. not much help, sry. ^_^;

[cbwing0]

[quote="kirakira"]As for the origional question....well, I think the best way is to just ask her. But then, of course, you might suffer rejection, mocking, etc. but then again mebbe not. You never know. not much help, sry. ^_^]
That's much easier said than done...if he could have just asked her, then he would have done it already. It's better to get some insurance of a positive answer first, by asking others who know her, and talking with her about about others things (if you can manage it). This has the double purpose of getting information, and dropping the hint to the girl that you like her (note: girls are much more loyal to their friends than they are to you: use that to your advantage!).

Granted, it is simpler and easier to just ask her, but if you are that blunt, you might turn her off; or, if she is as scared as you, she might freak out and say no just for that reason. Not to mention the fact that it takes a great deal of courage of a kind that most people lack to just ask someone with not setup.

[EireWolf]

Gringo society. Filipinos never get divorced! Well, legally they're not allowed to divorce. Yet I know some couples who would divorce if they weren't bound by legal/religious obligations.

Where did this come from? You do realize that OldPhil's post was tongue-in-cheek, right? He doesn't believe in divorce either. He knows that he will never need another "upgrade"... Wife 1.0 is already perfect.

In other words, it was said in jest... and in reference to a funny email that has gone around the internet several million times. If I didn't take offense to it (I, being Wife 1.0), neither should you.

[EireWolf]

Oh yeah... To answer the original question... YOU'RE TOO YOUNG TO BE DATING!!!!!

I'm totally serious about that... but for future reference, it depends on the girl. But this will get easier to figure out as you (and the girls) get older. Right now you're all confused by hormones raging out of control. Did that answer your question?

[Mithrandir]

Filipinos never get divorced! Well, legally they're not allowed to divorce. Yet I know some couples who would divorce if they weren't bound by legal/religious obligations.

ABOUT THIS... Cheek contains a certain amount of tongue. Sorry if that was offensive. I have no problem if WIFE 1.0 is upgraded by the maker of WIFE software. I do not personally see any reason for improvement, but if the manufacuture wants to upgrage the software, I wlll not stand in his way.




TRANSLATION: IF GOD THINKS MY WIFE NEEDS TO DO SOMETHING I'M NOT IN FAVORE OF, HE CAN DO IT. HE DOES NOT NEED MY APPROVAL.