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You really should distance yourself from what tempts you. I know that sounds easier then it is, but it is possible u_u Distance yourself and keep yourself busy. Take up drawing or watch some anime or learn how to play an instrument or write ^^ There's bound to be something you're into ^^
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Tsukuyomi - Posts: 8222
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I told him I loved him today. He couldnt respond. I then told him I was not sure my heart could take it anymore and I probably had to stop talking to him. I dont want to stop talking to him. I really do love him. This is the worst day of my life.
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Roxas2210 - Posts: 84
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i think for your own well-being, sometimes we must distance ourselves from something that is pleasurable. just because it feels good doesn't mean it's RIGHT.
sure, your heart might still want to talk to this guy, but you know as well as i do that it probably is not the best thing if you want to get out of this.
block him. sorry.
sure, your heart might still want to talk to this guy, but you know as well as i do that it probably is not the best thing if you want to get out of this.
block him. sorry.
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chibiphonebooth - Posts: 1975
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Roxas, you have to do what's best for the Lord and your own well being. And having these type of feelings are a affront Christ.
Do what the Lord says.
Mark 9:43 (New International Version)
43If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out.
What this is basically telling us is to severe off anything that cause us to sin.
Do what the Lord says.
Mark 9:43 (New International Version)
43If your hand causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go into hell, where the fire never goes out.
What this is basically telling us is to severe off anything that cause us to sin.
Some of my favorite scriptures.
Psalm91
A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.
Because thou hast made the LORD, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;
There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.
Hebrews 4-4
1Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it.
2For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it.
3For we which have believed do enter into rest, as he said, As I have sworn in my wrath, if they shall enter into my rest: although the works were finished from the foundation of the world.
4For he spake in a certain place of the seventh day on this wise, And God did rest the seventh day from all his works.
James 4
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
Revelation 22:14
Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.
Psalm91
A thousand shall fall at thy side, and ten thousand at thy right hand; but it shall not come nigh thee.
Only with thine eyes shalt thou behold and see the reward of the wicked.
Because thou hast made the LORD, which is my refuge, even the most High, thy habitation;
There shall no evil befall thee, neither shall any plague come nigh thy dwelling.
Hebrews 4-4
1Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it.
2For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it.
3For we which have believed do enter into rest, as he said, As I have sworn in my wrath, if they shall enter into my rest: although the works were finished from the foundation of the world.
4For he spake in a certain place of the seventh day on this wise, And God did rest the seventh day from all his works.
James 4
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom. Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
Revelation 22:14
Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city.
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Gabriel 9.0 - Posts: 736
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That has insulted me by introducing the thought that God is not all powerful and that He dose not make all the decisions before we can even make them! I place my trust compleately and totaly, without question, in him! You should do some seriouse soul serching and see that what you have just said can and probably has offented and insulted many people! How DARE you come into this place and suggest that God is not who he says he is!!
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Roxas2210 - Posts: 84
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It's best if you distance yourself from him. You guys only know one another online, so it'll be easier then if you two knew one another in real life.
"Out of sight.. out of mind".. right?
Perhaps that was easier said then done to u_u
"Out of sight.. out of mind".. right?
Perhaps that was easier said then done to u_u
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Tsukuyomi - Posts: 8222
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I told him today that I could no longer talk to him. I am sick to my stomach, but I know that I will get over that. Thank you all for your help.
Yours
Roxas
Yours
Roxas
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Roxas2210 - Posts: 84
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it was a smart move.
you did the right thing.
you did the right thing.
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chibiphonebooth - Posts: 1975
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I know it was a hard decision, but it was the right one. We're all here for you Roxas if you need to talk or need some encouragement.
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Sheenar - Posts: 2989
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I again thank you all for your help and prayer. I talked to a good family friend today and reasured me that I was not a basket case, and I would be able to recognise those kinds of situations and veer out of them if I ever come across them.
Yours
Roxas
Yours
Roxas
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Roxas2210 - Posts: 84
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I'm just gonna toss in my two cents here.
I've lain in bed at night and wished I had a special relationship with someone else. But really, as I'm two years older than you are now, I have just been blown away when I look back and realize how much maturity and mental development I lacked when I was 16. Believe me, you really should wait till you're at least 18. Even now, I don't feel mentally prepared to offer a proper boyfriend relationship to anyone, and I turn 19 in two months. Really consider that before getting into another love relationship.
I've lain in bed at night and wished I had a special relationship with someone else. But really, as I'm two years older than you are now, I have just been blown away when I look back and realize how much maturity and mental development I lacked when I was 16. Believe me, you really should wait till you're at least 18. Even now, I don't feel mentally prepared to offer a proper boyfriend relationship to anyone, and I turn 19 in two months. Really consider that before getting into another love relationship.
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Prince Asbel - Posts: 588
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I think when it comes to relationships, people focus too much on emotions and mentality and not enough on LOGISTICS. I know it makes me sound really terrible, but if there's a reason that teen relationships rarely work out and teen marriage/pregnancy sucks. If you're 16, you can't help having feelings for another person, but you CAN prevent them from affecting yourself and others in a negative way. If you bury your feeling inside your heart, they'll never escape and eventually, they'll probably die out just due to circumstances.
Yes. I just suggested bottling up your feelings. I'm heartless.
Obviously, most teenagers who get into relationships don't go through some crazy psychological trauma, and a number don't suffer heartbreak when the relationship ends. However, the fact that feelings could cause you any pain at all means that it's a no-no. You did the right thing.
Yes. I just suggested bottling up your feelings. I'm heartless.
Obviously, most teenagers who get into relationships don't go through some crazy psychological trauma, and a number don't suffer heartbreak when the relationship ends. However, the fact that feelings could cause you any pain at all means that it's a no-no. You did the right thing.
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minakichan - Posts: 1547
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Some feelings are better up bottled up inside >_> They may not go completely away, but at least they'll diminish some u_u
Just stay away from him and I'm sure everything will be ok ^__^
Just stay away from him and I'm sure everything will be ok ^__^
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Roxas2210 (post: 1230481) wrote:I know I am totaly pathetic and winy, but I need more prayer. I have been weak again lately.
Okay. You got it.
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Prince Asbel - Posts: 588
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Now I need advice. I have another very dear friend who I have known for nearly 6 years, and we had formed a very strong bond. But as of late, that bond was shattered. I had sent a letter to friend B telling her that I missed her and I loved her, but I ment that love as a brother would love a sis. Friend A didnt take it that way and she is very angry. I have been dreaming frequently about her and I becoming frineds again, but I dont really know how to do that. I have recently sent her an e-mail telling her we need to talk, and am waiting for a resonse, if any will come. What should I do if she does reopen communications with me?
Yours
Roxas
Yours
Roxas
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Roxas2210 - Posts: 84
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All I can suggest is that you make it clear to her that your love is more of a friend's love as opposed to a romantic love. That's pretty much all there is to it. If she doesn't like that, oh well. That's really all you can do.
P.S. My own two cents post was supposed to have been made earlier or something. I think there was a bug or something in the system, but that should have appeared earlier in the thread. This was before I knew of your other struggles. By the way, I'm praying about those as well as your immediate problem with your friend.
P.S. My own two cents post was supposed to have been made earlier or something. I think there was a bug or something in the system, but that should have appeared earlier in the thread. This was before I knew of your other struggles. By the way, I'm praying about those as well as your immediate problem with your friend.
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Prince Asbel - Posts: 588
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Roxas2210 (post: 1231209) wrote:Now I need advice. I have another very dear friend who I have known for nearly 6 years, and we had formed a very strong bond. But as of late, that bond was shattered. I had sent a letter to friend B telling her that I missed her and I loved her, but I ment that love as a brother would love a sis. Friend A didnt take it that way and she is very angry. I have been dreaming frequently about her and I becoming frineds again, but I dont really know how to do that. I have recently sent her an e-mail telling her we need to talk, and am waiting for a resonse, if any will come. What should I do if she does reopen communications with me?
Yours
Roxas
Well in my opinion I would explain that you simply wish to re kindle that friendship. Apologize for the past and tell her that you want to move forward but that she has to understand that you are strictly friends with this friend B and has nothing to do with any romance. (I honestly don't see why Friend A should care but thats not a judgement i can make) If she doesn't reopen communication then honestly she isn't a friend worth having (sorry i know cliche but i have been in this situation numerous times)
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