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Relationships.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 5:35 pm
by Twister980
Well, I would like some prayer regarding my relationship with God. I'm sure I'm not alone in this, but sometimes while playing video games or reading books, or just going out, I don't always apply what I've learned to my life. Pray that I would become a better Christian.
Prayer for me and my crush. I believe that God might be telling me to wait, considering I didn't tell her what I thought about her this past Sunday. Just pray that God would give me a clear mind, and that he would guide me in terms of a relationship with her. (Note: She is actually four years younger then me. I've heard people saying those ages don't work out very well.)
And my relationship with you guys. That I would grow to know more of you, and become more open.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 6:41 pm
by Atria35
Praying.
Yes, age is a very serious concern when there's a 4 year difference and she's younger than you (doubly so when you're 17). Not only do high school relationships not usually work out - though that's okay, and normal and expected - but you're at two different stages of maturity and life. She's just entering high school, and you'll be exiting it and going out into the big, bad world.
But that doesn't mean it can't work out, and I do know one relationship where it did. So definitely praying that you'll know what to do when the time comes!
PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 11:17 pm
by Mr. SmartyPants
Thirteen years old?
Eh... I wouldn't do it, man. Just don't. XD
PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 11:47 pm
by DaughterOfZion
17 and 13 is kind of poking at the crime cliff, depending on your states laws, so...yeah.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 03, 2012 11:51 pm
by Xeno
DaughterOfZion (post: 1587614) wrote:17 and 13 is kind of poking at the crime cliff, depending on your states laws, so...yeah.
Or depending on your state's laws you very well may have Thelma & Louise'd off said cliff.
Seriously though. I'd highly recommend against such a relationship. The two of you are worlds apart developmentally (mentally and physically). It's just a bad idea.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 04, 2012 10:39 pm
by AdriTan
I'm praying for ya, Twister!
PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 8:29 am
by samurai10
I'll be praying for you.
Just one bit of advice. If you do decide to go through with telling your crush that you like her, and it develops into something more, just remember one thing:
Think everything through carefully. Don't rush things. I repeat, DO. NOT. RUSH. If you rush... let's just say that if you rush and don't think, there will be messy consequences.
I'll be praying.
PostPosted: Wed Sep 05, 2012 8:33 am
by Twister980
Thanks for the prayers and advice everyone.
@Samurai
Yeah, that's one thing I really really have to work on.